Keep Going

Keep Going. 

Commit.

Push your limits.

Grow.

Transcend.

Keep Going.

Thank you!

Friniggi Sportswear will be closing its online store indefinitely. 

This was  a difficult decision to make, but one that had to be made nonetheless.

I have met the most incredible women from around the world whilst providing them with sportswear.

And I enjoyed this part the most.

I have not written off Islamic Sportswear for good, and may yet return to this game to serve the needs of sporting sisters everywhere.

My "mission" with friniggi Sportswear for Muslim women was to contribute to the development of Muslim women sports. I will continue this mission in another way, another platform.

Watch this space as friniggi.com evolves into its new phase.

Thank you for your support over the years, and I hope you will continue the journey with me into our new project.

Peace, love and light

Fatima

15 min Desk workout

Many of us are fortunate to have jobs given the downturn experienced in different economies recently. But, it can mean hours at a desk or a computer which is really not good for health. More than trying to fit in 30 mins of exercise a day, many sedentary people would reap far more health benefits (other than weight loss) by simply avoiding sitting too long.

If you can spare 15 minutes, preferably your lunch hour, this desk workout from Sparkpeople.com trains major muscle groups, and stretches hip flexors and other muscles that tighten from being desk bound for an entire day.

Imagine how good it'll feel once you're done, endorphins boosting your mood, oxygen revitalising your energy levels for the rest of the day. Totally worth it in more ways than one!

What you'll need:
1. A sturdy chair without wheels
2. A sturdy wall
3. Athletic shoes (or barefoot works too)
4. Small towel to wipe off sweat
5. Anti-perspirant to apply afterwards
6. Water to stay hydrated before and after

CLICK here to see the 15 Minute Desk Workout now.

Getting back to exercise - after Ramadan

Barbell squat, one of my favourites.
Currently lifting 10kg in my outdoor 'gym'.

Working out during the fast proved difficult for me. For all those fitness and fasting articles all over the web this Ramadan, they didn't help me much. This is why:

• A week into it, and I got caught up in iftar prep and extra ibadah.
• Our fasting being in winter this year (Souther Hemisphere) the days were really short. And no matter the extra night hours winter provides, darkness is darkness. This stimulates our body into winding down and sleep mode. 
• Night workouts were out of the question. A good night's sleep is a top health activity for me. 
• I couldn't muster the energy for anything after iftar.
• I found I lost a few kilos giving me a false sense of being way ahead of my exercise routine. 
• Weight loss is not one of my exercise goals
• Maintaining my current weight, gaining strength, getting healthy are my exercise goals. So I took the fasting as a break, not wanting to push my body too far on its health equilibrium

Okay so it was a long break. Getting back into it was tricky. Mind and body had to be re-disciplined all over again it seemed. However I trusted that after the first session was over, muscle memory would kick in, and it would take over from there. This was how I got into the routine after almost a month of  no fitness routines whatsoever:

• First session was Friday. A quick, but intense, half hour workout.
•  Deciding to ease into it, I took a break on Saturday, just performing simple stretches.
• Second session was today. I did a normal full hour workout. Not only did I finish it just as easily as pre-Ramadan days, but I managed to do the more advanced moves! That is the advantage of breaks, giving your body time to recover, so you can do more later.
• My exercise routines consist of short intense workouts, and then I hit the weights. And not the teeny tiny dumbbells, but the heavy ones. On the barbell. I'm not a cardio fan. All that getting out of breath stuff does not appeal to me. That's why strength training really appeals to me in all forms, pilates, stretching, weights.
• Next session is tomorrow!

Don't expect too much from yourself. Each day is different. You respond differently to the same routine. If it doesn't go the way you plan today, try tomorrow or the next day. Don't push too hard! 

Challenge yourself without straining your body.

Top tip: Your mind is the biggest obstacle. Don't listen to it when it lists all the reasons why not to get up and go.

Ramadan in Botswana

Ramadan in Botswana

If this is the first time you've heard of Botswana, I don't blame you. While it's a fairly large country geographically, it is a small nation with a population of only 3 million people. Shaped like Texas, and just as hot in the summer.

 A landlocked country with the world's only inland delta, the Okavango Delta, Botswana is located in Southern Africa next to South Africa, Zimbabwe and Namibia . The Okavango Delta is a popular tourist attraction with wildlife and game, and where you will find the only lions in the world who frolic in the water. Cats usually hate getting their paws wet.

This year, Ramadan falls in the winter months.

Freezing cold nights, but fairly mild sunny winter days, make for relatively easy fasting compared to the seventeen hour days of Northern Europe in the summertime. Not too hot, nor too cold, this year we feel truly blessed to be fasting in July.

Muslims are a significant minority from various cultural and ethnic backgrounds, with a dominant Indian-Malay cultural norms and traditions.

My own family has mixed cultural backgrounds and food being the flavour of a nation, iftaar at my folks' place is a cultural table spread.

Samoosas, dates and chiken tikka for an Indian-Malay flavour. Crab and butternut cooked in coconut milk, siopao (pronounced Shoo-pow) and chicken noodle soup Filipino style.

Samoosas sizzle on the stove

Crab, butternut cooked in coconut milk

Dates to break one's fast the Sunnah way.

Siopao, a chinese influence in Filipino food is a small round steamed bun with a filling  of choice.
These had a sweet red bean paste.

Chicken noodle soup

From left to right (clockwise): Chicken tikka, vegetable soup, samoosas and Siopao

My sister (right) and I, having iftaar at my parent's home.

Winter days are mild, sunny weather prevails. But the temperature drops quickly at night to single digits.

The Ramadan timetable showing sehri and iftaar times in different regions of the country.

The truth about mind power

Me, on a boat in pretty Cape Town, South Africa recently. (And no I'm not really steering that boat - dummy wheel)

It is an old adage that dates back through the ages: The power of belief overcoming the impossible.

The human mind has a conscious part and a subconscious part, the latter being the subject of many books, research papers and articles in recent times.

The subconscious part remains a mystery as no one can tell you exactly how it functions.
It seems to be located in our brains, and yet is connected to other organs through our physiological networks of blood vessels, nerves and synapses, muscle tissue and bones. It is the subconscious mind that runs all the bodily systems and functions in the background. It is the operating system of our bodies, the WINDOWS software to our machine of a body. Breathing, digestion, immune system response and healing, growing are all from the operated by the subconscious.

It is also somehow connected to things outside of our bodies such as other people, objects, creatures, nature and unseen things. We know this through our ability to empathise with others, we feel the pain, joy, sadness, disappointment and excitement of others. Emotions that did not begin within us, but was communicated to us.

The seaside town of Fish Hoek beach in Southern Peninsula of Cape Town.

Yet no one knows the exact dynamics of how the subconscious mind functions. Do you know HOW to digest your food, how to break down a protein differently from a carbohydrate? Do you know HOW many times you need to pump your heart increasing beats per minute when the need for more oxygen arises, and decreasing it to a normal rate afterwards? Do you KNOW HOW to grow your hair or REPAIR your broken bones? Not consciously, no. And yet, you do this everyday, every hour, every second, without fail.

Think about that for a minute. That is how amazing YOU are.
Your subconscious is part of your brain, which is part of you. You are doing things, vital functions, everyday without even knowing (consciously) how it's done.

Bubbles on the beach

I believe our intelligence as human beings, along with our free will, is a great gift from Allah (swt).
We were not made vicegerents over the earth for no reason.

There is a great power to harness within your mind, for wealth, for health, for success.
You could apply it to anything in your life. You do not have to KNOW just how you are going to do it.

The important thing is that you CHOOSE to do it. DECIDE to do it.
Then do the best action that you can think of to achieve it. It works without fail.
It may not be a straight road to success. All journeys begin with a first step, and it is a critical first step to CHOOSE and to DECIDE to do something to improve your situation.

Fish Hoek beach under the autumn sun

Say you want to change something in your life, let's choose a fitness goal for example, because this is a fitness blog: Choose to lose weight, get fit and be as healthy as you can.

Because our minds are so powerful in dictating our actions, and thus the results in our life, I'd say begin with overcoming the mind, instead of trying to harness it's potential.

We are surrounded by facts and data, half-truths and information overload, most of which tell us we are on the downward spiral to failure. Most of which stimulate our senses with negativity, prompting our actions on a negative path. Overcome your mind when it tells you that losing weight is impossible because you are not disciplined enough to stick to a plan and therefore most likely to fail.
Overcome you mind when it tells you the "facts" of your body being too far gone in bad health to make it back to a more healthier functioning.

An industrial view of Table Mountain. The harbour is in the foreground, where international ships arrive with shipments and passengers. Some ships and even oil rigs come here for as long as six months to undergo repairs.

Overcome your mind by showing it through your own action, that it is wrong. Stimulate your senses through action and experience and direct your mind to the path you want to go. Your mind needs the experience of a different path to bring it out of its current path. That is the connection between mind and body,  the physical experience that teaches the mind.

You've heard it said before: the mind can be your greatest friend or your greatest enemy.
It can be your tool for success or your biggest obstacle.

I believe that in overcoming the mind as an obstacle first, you'll start to change the results you see in your life faster and more effectively than if you tried to harness its power first.

I hope you enjoyed my random photos of Cape Town.

View of Table Mountain (behind) and Signal Hill (front) from the boat.

Don't sit for too long!

We all know that sedentary lifestyles are a major health risk for lifestyle diseases such as heart disease, blood pressure illnesses, weight problems and diabetes to name a few.
Up to now we thought that we could combat this by exercising everyday for at least half an hour.

Now it appears that no amount of vigourous exercise can combat the health risks that sitting for too long impacts on your body. Read article here.


This fits right in with my health philosophy: stay close to a natural way of living as much as possible to reap both known and unknown benefits for your health and well-being. And moreover to avoid as much as possible both known and unknown risks to your health and well-being.

Our bodies were designed to move (hint: click to read article)
all the time. To get something, we move to reach it. To go somewhere, we move to get there.
It is in our very nature to move. And the more we do it, the better we feel. The better our bodies become, despite getting older. 

Before you panic about the risk your desk job is wreaking upon your health, remember it is the daily small movements as we go about our day that counts in this respect. You do not have to do squats every 15 mins, or hit the floor in a plank every half hour. What this discovery highlights, is that engaging in daily tasks which require us to get off our seats, actually is good for you. 

So the next time you are forced to park a block away, and then walk to your destination, or you have to get up and make your own coffee, or make copies in the next building, see it as a benefit to your health while you go about your daily tasks.

What is your fitness age?

So how fit do you think you are?
Run 5k's, cycle half marathons? Are these the true tests of fitness?

I'm not sure either.

It's an incredible feat for sure. However the recent rise in young and "fit" athletes suddenly dropping dead on the field due to cardiac arrest or heart failure, is a cause for concern.
How hard should we be pushing ourselves, before the optimal point is passed and it becomes more destructive than constructive.

But that is for another post.

Right now I've come across another hot topic - fitness test calculators. (I thought I'd credit the blog where I first came across this fitness calculator. If you love MMA, head on over to this sister's site: PrettyTuff.co.za)

Maximal oxygen uptake or VO2 max is the capacity of the body to transport oxygen during incremental exercise. Measures physical fitness.

This calculation is researched based. Questions focus around lifestyle and heart rates.
Physical fitness is heart health and moreover the ability of the body to transport oxygen during incremental exercise. I guess this makes sense, since we associate a fit person with someone who doesn't huff and puff like they are constantly trying to catch their breath. If you're getting enough oxygen, then your body wouldn't demand it of you through extra heavy breathing.

This is called maximal oxygen uptake (VO2 max). Your test results will be given in this measurement as well as your fitness age. I bet you can't wait to find out your fitness age?

Just hang on a bit for this bit of healthy advice:

The idea is that you can have the same VO2 max as a much younger person, with exercise, healthy eating and avoiding sedentary lifestyles. Although nothing can make you live longer than the date arranged for you by Allah (SWT), staying fit is a way to look after the gift of a physical body given to us, and a healthy strong body at any age definitely makes life easier.

So what is your fitness age? I was five years younger than my actual age. And my VO2 max reading was equal to that of an average woman in my own age group. Although I'd like to read a little more positively into it, since my age is on the upper end of this age group; if I maintain this VO2 max result into the next year, I'd be above average and getting younger! Physically-fit-younger, that is.

Find out your true physical fitness age now.

Yoga: engaging in shirk or not?

I've recently dabbled into YOGA. There was a free dvd in a health magazine and I tried it out.

I found it quite relaxing and calming, unwinding my tense muscles after a long day, in a different way then regular exercise. All the deep breathing and pausing had a calming effect on my impatient self.

The challenges of the poses, listening to the instructor, trying to balance myself - all had a profound impact in getting my monkey-mind into focus. It was mindfulness in its true form. I could think of nothing else except what I was doing at that very moment. What's more is that afterwards, my body felt light and more flexible, removing the day's tightness from my muscles.

However something bothered me a little: The instructor referred to certain series of poses as sun salutations. Immediately I didn't like the sound of that. It sounded like worshipping or praising the sun! And when I think of the poses, they seem like prostrations and offerings. There was one particular pose, no 3 in the picture below, which the instructor said you could put your hands on your shins with a flat back  - felt like I was in rukuh. At first that felt great because it just goes to show the possible health benefits that movements of salaah could have. But what was I making rukuh to?

Since there was no chanting of ohm's or other words, and since all the instructor did was pose and tell us when to breathe, I continued with it.

But the question still nagged me - does practising the sun salutations as exercise with intention of exercise and meditation, still amount to shirk or lead to shirk?

Before we continue, let's clarify what shirk is. Shirk is the association of partners with Allah (SWT). Since our very identity as a Muslim is to believe in one God, one Creator, one Sustainer, one Provider, one Most Merciful, one Protector etc.. then anything we take as a replacement for Allah (Swt) for any reason, leads to or amounts to associating partners with Allah, shirk.

The series of poses for "sun salutation" in yoga

Allah (Swt) is the ultimate Source. Whatever we want or need, it comes from Allah (Swt). Shirk is tricky and a great tool for Shaytaan in slowly misleading people. It's tricky because it is so easy to fall into it. The moment I put something above Allah or equal to Allah or obey over and above Allah (swt), like a person, a way of life, a need or desire, wealth, freedom, philosophies etc then I am being lead towards associating partners with Allah. A sure path of loss in this world and the next.

As always, there are differing opinions on this. A few years ago a fatwa was issued in Malaysia urging yoga to be banned for its associations with hinduism. Before I cry and mourn the loss of a newfound exercise, let me think of what I'm holding onto and what I'm walking away from.

I'm holding onto a calming and meditative form of exercise, with healing benefits for illness as it stimulates the part of the nervous system which counteracts stress and disease-causing effects in the body.

I may be walking away from Allah, taking a tiny step further away from Allah instead of getting closer towards Allah. Allah - The ultimate Source of health, tranquility and salvation in this life and the next.

That's not a difficult choice! If I give up yoga for Allah, there is no loss! In fact, I gain more.

This was my choice already before I set out to find answers from the great modern oracle: Google. (sorry couldn't help that one - Google has become like an oracle. Type in a question, get an answer)

Links to articles I found insightful:

1) Yoga is haraam: http://islamqa.info/en/101591

2) Yoga is halal only without the chanting and spiritual matters: http://muslimmatters.org/2008/12/24/breathe-in-breathe-out-ohmmm/

I guess I'm with number 2; yoga is halal without the religious chanting and spiritual context.

But I'm wary of yoga now.

To be a true master, you need to delve into something completely. I like to master crafts and activities. So this means I need to be mindful of my restrictions in practising yoga. I could never be a true yogi, which in the first article means to try and unite with the spirit and God, seeing all religions, including Islam, as incomplete truths. 

Yoga, tai chi and other ancient forms of martial arts and exercises often have a spiritual foundation which may be contrary to believing in the oneness of Allah, leading to shirk.

In practicing yoga and other ancient forms of exercise and meditation, while attaining mindfulness and inner peace, we should be mindful too of the fact that it is best to restrict these practices to the exercise form only. 

In this case, western forms of yoga, which is physically based and only focuses on poses and breathing leaving out the spiritual element, may be the best one to practice. Some are really useful for stretching hip flexors, great for women!


However, I'm a little put off by the sun salutations part of yoga. I can get the same mindfulness from regular exercise just by continuously challenging myself, adding weights for example, trying new routines and sports. I hear pilates, which involves stretching and breathing too, is similar to yoga with no religious affiliation or names like "sun salutations". 

Good intentions or not, these ancient exercises are meant to touch your soul, move it (to where?), and the poses have a purpose inclined to that spiritual belief. Just like prostration in salah has a purpose of humbling ourselves in our natural position before Allah, a position acknowledging His Superiority over us. It humbles the soul, moves it towards believing in one God.

Letting go of yoga completely may not be so bad. That would be ironic, since yoga teaches to LET GO of what does not serve you.


I leave you with this mindful ayat:

Hate exercise? - a powerful solution

According to one article I read, most women do not like to exercise or do sports.

MERMAID POSE in PILATES

I'm not surprised. Personally I hate exercise. All those reps and circuits can get so boring.
Sports was more my thing. Especially team sports.
Playing a sport is what people do together, and so it becomes more about the social aspect of the activity instead of the activity itself. But it requires a level of commitment that most women cannot give when they're building careers and families. Nobody wants to let their team down by not showing up because they had to work late or attend to their families.

So we're left with exercise as the only way to keep fit and healthy. Bleh!
Each minute, each rep feels like a lifetime.


I've tried many different approaches to this, to try and enjoy it and hopefully do more exercise.
But it doesn't change the boring-ness of exercise.
Sports was also a mental game. There was strategy involved.
Exercise only requires that you're able to count reps.

So if you're not a gym-bunny nor an exercise junkie, what's next?

Forget the motivational quotes and pep-talks. It doesn't work here, and doesn't last longer than that first minute into the exercise routine.

When you know you have to do something about your weight, your health or your fitness and you don't have a personal trainer to push you and hold you accountable, then there's only one thing left to do. 

In the words of another famous sports brand: Just do it!

GOOD OLD FASHIONED ROPE SKIPPING

Sports hijab and athletic performance - addressing key factors

Back in my netball, tennis and very active sports playing teenage days, which have since been replaced with family duties, I read an in a sports magazine about how athletes use all their senses when competing.

Watch an ATP tennis match. Pick any of the fastest servers in the league and you'll see that they hit the ball so hard that travels towards their opponent at speeds over 220km/hour!

I doubt any of their opponents can see the ball coming towards them. Perhaps all they can make out is a yellow streak. But it's so fast, it's difficult to judge with eyesight alone the direction it is going and precisely where it is going to land. Getting there before it bounces past them, is difficult.

According to the article I read, hearing the ball being hit and landing nearby, helps to judge more accurately it's direction. Hearing the THWACK of it being hit by your opponent, gives an idea of timing, of when to move. Together with eyesight, judging the ball's direction and timing it's landing is easier with teamwork of the senses.

Now for a hijabi girl, this may be problematic. Layers of fabric over the ears can affect hearing, particularly if there is more than one layer.  More denser fabrics can flaps against your ears causing distracting and annoying noises.

That day, many years ago, I thought to my teenage self, This is it!
This is what Muslim women's sportswear is all about. It's not just style, design and colours. But functionality and performance enhancement too. That day I sketched my first design. And improved on it a little at a time.

The new sports hijab Pioneer 800 range has less gathering of fabric at the neck and a longer, though compact front panel to cover small to larger chest sizes. It's a simpler design, offering comfort and modesty.

In the side-view sports hijab image above, I've edited the picture to emphasise the seams in the design. Two seams are visible, but neither cross over the ears eliminating noise caused by friction and irritation on the ears.

The Pioneer 800 range of sports hijabs, are based on the previous design of 2012, the Pioneer 700 range. However, the inner head band was removed as it added another layer over the ears getting in the way of a key factor I wanted the sports hijab to have. 

Like the 700 range, it comes in FIVE different sizes to give you the best balance between secure fit and comfort. Not to mention TEN different colours to choose from. And the fabric - it is still the same quality, moisture-wicking, quick-drying, breathable, lightweight fabric, designed for sports. All to keep you cool and dry while you play free.

*Currently retails for BWP320 or USD 37 or EURO 27 or MYR 117 or SGD46

Sports bras - Bounce control

If you are the type to wear your everyday bra to the gym or that iron-woman marathon, you may be jeopardising your breast health. Shockingly, 75% of women do not wear sports bras when exercising or doing sports!


Most sports bras are made to be worn on their own without any need to wear a shirt over it.
But covering up modestly does not mean you can toss on any bra that is in your undies drawer.

Sports bras have a very important function - protecting your breast tissue.

Exercise and sports involves a lot of fast, jerky movements. When your body quickly changes from one direction to another, the weight of your body plays against you. Great for toning and weight-loss, but bad for unsupported breasts. More specifically, the heavier your breasts the more damage is done by the sheer weight of the breast tissue itself. The larger your cup size, the more damage is done. Talk about attacking your own body!

Exercise, while good for overall health, can stretch ligaments that keep your breasts firm and (ahem) above your waistline. High impact exercise can damage the breast tissue itself which can be the cause of many other ailments in the long term. More commonly and cause for concern, exercise is one of the biggest causes of breasts sagging prematurely. Breasts have no muscle support, so once they sag no amount of toning or exercising is going to lift it back up again.

So now that you're convinced in switching your regular bra for a sports bra when you hit the gym, what next?

Choose the right one for your size with consideration of your type of exercise.
Higher impact activities require stronger support.

Sports bras styles such as the black and white duo below, are okay for A-cup to B-cup sizes, for any activity of low to high impact intensity. Though you may want to consider stronger support just to be sure. Larger cup sizes could wear these for low impact activities such as yoga, lifting light weights. 
The T-bar at the back is the main support of this bra, as it pulls your breasts closer to your body, not allowing them to swing in all directions which is the cause of tissue damage.

For stronger support, a must for C-cup sizes and above, consider sports bras that support each breast. They look more like regular bras, and may or may not have underwire. This purple one below, does not have underwire. 

The peachy coloured one, below has a definite shape to it supporting each breast and avoiding the one-boob effect. The stretchy fabric is part of the compression technology, which basically means it presses your breasts against your body restricting movement. 

Straps that criss-cross  at the back give it the support it needs for higher impact sports. Although not required, wider straps offer more support. Waistbands that can adjust width like a regular bra are a bonus ensuring a perfect fit everytime.

When fitting on a sports bra, the key point to remember is it should restrict movement as much as possible without feeling too uncomfortable or squeezing  too tight. You should be able to breathe easily, so that your body can supply oxygen to your brain when training!

Sports bras provide more modesty too. You don't have to worry about bouncing around under your sportswear as you exercise in the open. Everything is kept still and out of sight. Just the way we want it.

Hijab: Whatsit to you?

Hijab. It's such a loaded word. A topic that can polarise dinner party guests as quickly as dropping the word "carbohydrates" in a diet/weight loss conversation. It is so many things to so many different people.

Here is what hijab is to different people:
1. A representation of Muslim identity, and hence a sense of community is formed
2. A protest to modern day female objectification
3. The highest form of modesty
4. The highest form of Iman (belief in Allah)
5. A form of protection from unwanted male attention and advances
6. A form of protection from would be rapists
7. A form of true beauty
8. A cover that allows you to be taken at the value of your inner self, and not for your looks

Those are the good things, the 'promises' that we've all been told at one time or another about hijab.

There are also bad things about hijab, the list continues:
9. A burden
10. An unconscious mind-numbing habit, devoid of spiritual value
11. A people-pleaser
12. An obstruction and oppression against women
13. An outward appearance that covers up a 'bad' superficial personality

There is more to add to the list. But these are the common ideas of hijab that I've come across.
Are these false ideas? Do those 'promises' automatically come true for those who start wearing hijab?

A woman decides to wear hijab out of obedience to Allah (swt) hoping for its benefits, and then finds that some of these promises are never delivered. The truth is that hijab sometimes attracts more men, more unwanted male attention and advances. People still judge you for the way you look - in hijab! If you were hoping that you'd find a place in the Muslim community when you wear it, you may have been hurt to find you were shunned for some other silly reason anyway. These were all things we were told to encourage us to wear hijab. Sometimes these fall flat on their faces.

The same woman may continue on her hijab journey and a few years down the road, hijab becomes a burden, a habit. Since it never delivered on its promises, it seems somehow unnecessary. Even more so that she met really nice and pious Muslims who didn't wear hijab. She begins to question it all, "what is the point of it really?"

Haters may hate. And those that are perfect in themselves, will judge at this point.
But should she care? Not one bit.

Hijab is one small part of being Muslim. To those who have formed their identities around it, this is hard to accept. If you can get beyond the preaching moulanas and muftis who have over-emphasised hijab, and continue on your hijab journey asking questions, why? how? why? It may lead you to answers that bring you closer to Allah (swt). It's a scary path to take, because there are few who do it so boldly.
You lose friends, you feel alone. Yet, in truth we are always alone, with Allah (swt). What difference does it make?

Hijab is also a trial. It's regretful that it has come to a point where some people feel that once they wear it, their religion is complete. There is more to being Muslim than only wearing hijab.
Let's start with the five pillars, then there is kindness, charity, humility, over-coming ego, honesty, tolerance and consideration, gratitude...

I'm a choice person. Not a choice grade person, but a believer in free - will and making your own choices.
If your hijab journey leads you to a decision to remove it, for whatever reason, that's okay. Hijab can be an on and off thing. Perhaps not lawfully, but by its nature wearing hijab is a task. I don't think removing it lessens iman, or makes anyone less of a Muslim.

We all have to find our journey in Islam. It is not going to be the same for everyone. Some find it easy to wear hijab, and love it. Others struggle a little bit more with it, and yet find every other part of practising Islam a breeze.

In the end though, Allah (swt) mentions in Quran more of ingratitude and ungratefulness for His blessings and mercy than about wearing hijab. Arrogance is what gets punished throughout the revelations. That's a clue as to what is really important in life. Hijab is such a small part indeed. 

When you feel overwhelmed by something, it is a good thing to step away and step out of that overwhelming thing. This may or not mean, making a decision to remove hijab. That is a completely personal decision. 

Muslim women in Sport: culture vs religion

My article in Aquila Style online magazine. I did a little research into Muslim Women in Sport, particularly the restrictions imposed on us by culture and religion.

Click the picture to follow the link to the article.

Kulsoom Abdullah - weightlifter

How do we decide what is acceptable sports for public participation? Key is modesty

My post mentions tafseer, but I must make it clear that although I study Islam I do not claim to be a scholar who can say what is Islamic and what isn't. What I express below is my own opinion, observations of Muslim society, and my beliefs. This is of course, only a point for discussion.

I've recently come across statements against hijabi athletes participating in public. I've mentioned before how I've identified this attitude as one of the greatest barriers preventing women and girls from taking up sport for fun or as a career.

Some see it as undignified for women to run and jump in public view. So therefore such activities should be done out of sight of the public view, maybe behind closed doors.

Quoting the hadith of the Nabi(SAW) and young Hazrat Aish (RA), racing in the desert, saying no one was around when this race too place.

I've posted my discussion on this hadith here. But this hadith does not set out clear well-defined prohibitions against women doing sports in public.

I understand how some may consider running and jumping in public "undignified" behaviour for women. Though what constitutes "dignified" behaviour will vary from country to country and from culture to culture. Women who come from a culture where physical activity is limited or even repressed, will find even cycling a threat to their dignity and modesty. Some people view riding a scooter, in a normal sitting-but-upright position, unacceptable for women.

Yet, in other cultures, where women may be more physically active, may find it perfectly okay and do not feel "undignified" with the same activities. It may even be applauded.

Tafseer, is a learned human being's interpretation of Quran. Learned, but nonetheless tainted by their human qualities such as background, cultural beliefs. Which is why there are vast differences between the many interpretations, yet all are deemed correct. No tafseer is free from error. Humble tafseers always seek forgiveness from any errors it contains. Perfection belongs to Allah alone. Which is why we always seek guidance in everything we do, and ask forgiveness too for the errors we are bound to have made.

With this in mind, I feel that most of the existing tafseer have been made by those of a more conservative culture or background. And not conservative to Islam, but conservative to their culture. There's a difference.

Islam should overshadow culture where culture restricts unnecessarily.

So the limits are actually not well-defined. Who defines what is acceptable forms of sport or exercise in public? walking and cycling is okay, some may agree. Yet others may say cycling is not okay. When I watch women's football, only when I see ponytails swinging can I see that it is women and not men. They wear the same loose shirt and shorts as men. When they move their forms are not exposed in such a way that I can tell the shape of their hips from that of a man. If I cannot tell the difference on tv, then that means their bodies are not exposed. And as for the undignified way of running and jumping in public, that is very much subjective and will differ from person to person.

Dignity is being worthy of honour and respect. While some see rigourous body movements as undignifying to women, others see it as strength, agility and respect that. Again, it is subjective.

Again, I do not think the limits are that WELL-defined. That would mean an express prohibition of public participation of sports for women. I have not come across it.

What I have come across is: a requirement for modesty in all that you do. THe dress code is well-defined. Behaviour is defined in terms of good manners. Beyond that, if one feels public participation of sports is not suitable for women, then it is okay for them to do as they please. If another feels that they want to be a professional footballer in hijab, then it is okay for her to do as she pleases. To say Islam is against it, is open to discussion.

In Southern Africa, where I live, a Muslim woman in hijab riding a scooter (not a motorbike but a rather ladylike scooter) is unusual. It's not a common sight. In fact, I've never seen one. Here, such a thing may be undignified for women. Whether it is for Islamic reasons or not, I'm not sure. Probably it's because the scooter is seen as an inferior form of transport as opposed to a car, or they feel safer in a car than on a scooter due to high accident and crime rates here. Though sometimes some bring Islam into it and say that it is not acceptable for Muslim women to ride a scooter.

Yet, in the far east, women in hijab on a scooter is a common sight. It is not unusual. It is perfectly acceptable.

It is more likely for people in Africa to interpret Islamic modesty to say that scooters are unIslamic for women than it is for those in the far east, where it is culturally acceptable.

This is how culture plays a role in tafseer and interpretations of Islamic text.

For me, if one can cover appropriately, shows up to compete and prove skills in a certain sport that does not reveal their bodies, Islamically it is acceptable. This would be in line with the codes of modesty.
If one cannot cover appropriately due to the clothing requirements of the sport such as belly-dancing, gymnastics etc then perhaps this should be done in female-only environment. That said, I did see one figure skater from UAE who could make me change my mind.

I recall a tafseer that interpreted the phrase "except what is apparent thereof" from one of the verses of modesty. It mentioned that modesty does not include where the body is revealed due to natural movement or due to the elements such as when the wind blows the clothing against your body. (Personally I do not like getting to such a detailed level, it feels like splitting-hairs and being petty). Kicking a ball, swinging a racket, pushing forward with a fencing saber, falls under natural movement for me since it is hardly sensual. Hip gyrations as in belly dancing is sensual and compromises modesty for both men and women who do it.

How do we decide which is acceptable sports for public participation, since there is no clear definition?
My humble answer is, if you cannot cover appropriately, then it cannot be in public view.
However, I feel that this is one of those topics that is going to be very subjective due to the lack of definition. Just like some women cover their faces and others don't, while both are deemed correct - then some will see football as okay for public participation and others will not.

I'll be happy to agree to disagree, whilst maintaining harmony and unity within the Ummah.

Insha Allah may we be guided.



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